Being Right and be Happy at the same time?

Good evening folks, it been ages since i updated this blog. I am so sorry. I was having dinner with my family and we were watching the television programmes at the same time. The show stuck me an enormous thought. Can you be doing the right things and be truly happy?

My answer is an BIG YES!

22 years have passed for me and how about yours? Throughout the past few years, how many things that you are unwilling to do but have to do it just because it is the right thing to do? I bet are must been a few of them. As we all know, we do not like to be force to do stuffs nor doing these things can make us happy. However, how importantly is being correct vs being happy? How much does each of them means to you?

I will say i will rank Happiness above begin right. However, as i mentioned before in earlier postings, committing crimes is not an excuse for gaining happiness. What i have say is simple but applying it to our life is a different situation. Our society(at least mine) has conformed our beliefs. Begin happy and begin right at the same time is not always happening.

Can you be happy with the work you are doing now but you hated the boss?Will you quit your job? Or you just don't like what you are doing now?
Can you let go the person you loved, knowing that he/she will be happier that way or even letting go a relationship that you know you are not happy at all and the another person is suffering as well.
Are you brave enough to make the "correct" decision?

The above questions are just some of my random thoughts. More importantly, have you tried to savage the situation at least on your part? If yes, we chinese say 死而无憾. Meaning, to die without regrets. So the analogy is that if you have put in 100% effort to change to situation, i guess you have the right to throw in the towel.

So are you capable of balancing what rights and be happy at the same thing in your life, work and love? I am still trying to...

Jackson

Break Free ... Be Happy ....